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Why are Florida Prisons going kosher?

 Why are Florida Prisons going kosher!?

Dear Friends,

Strange as it seems, apparently Florida now has more Jewish Criminals than any other state in the Nation- Mazal Tov!

Amongst other interesting records that Florida holds, more prisoners are ordering Kosher food than anywhere else in the country. Though less than 1% of Californian inmates and 2.6% or prisoners in NY keep kosher, Florida is miles ahead of the pack with close to 5% of kosher prisoners! What’s going on here?

If less than 1.5 % of prisoners are Jewish, clearly something here isn’t kosher!

As a result of a recent lawsuit by the Federal Government, ‘as long as inmates say they hold a sincere belief in Judaism — a deeply forgiving standard — they are entitled to kosher meals, even if it takes a little chutzpah to make the request’.

I've never understood why other airline passengers don’t order Kosher food: you get served first and everyone is always wondering why your food looks so good! Whilst airline passengers clearly have their destinations in mind, prisoners, with far more free time on their hands, are catching on quickly.

Turns out that it takes a prison to find Kosher!! Isn’t it funny how our lives are like that too?

How often do we dismiss G-d when things are great, only to come running in search of him when things go south: the kids, the relationship, poor health, old age or money problems?

What kind of friend is one who is there when you need him, but nowhere to be found when he needs you!? Would you befriend someone like that!?

It reminds me of the fellow who is desperately seeking a parking spot in Manhattan so as not to miss his very important meeting. As he franticly circles the block, he vows to appease G-d with a kosher home, weekly Shul attendance, (the works!), just find me a parking spot! As soon as he is finished his vow, a large SUV pulls out from the front of the building whereupon he smiles up to G-d and says: ‘Never mind, I worked it out on my own!’

Let’s be smart in finding our connection to G-d when times are good and not only when we are in the prison periods of our lives.

Lets try to be there for G-d when He needs us so that He will be there for us when we need Him!

So, don’t be an angel, be an electrician, be a friend, be a Jew!

 

Dear Friends,

While leading a funeral this morning, we all watched in horror as a random electric utility pole suddenly collapsed and landed right atop one of the lined up cars. Mine was the car just behind the one which had actual pole on it! Now no one could near the cars as they were draped with live wires. We waited, some more patiently than others as the mess was cleaned up and we were finally able to approach the vehicles.

Last night as Shabbos preparations were about to begin at home, the fuse blew and we were left in the dark, cold and without any power until this afternoon when the electrician could come fix it. Turns out that we need to choose between the heat and the oven as both seem to overloading our electrical cables and tripping the lines.

Electricity is a fascinating thing. We don’t exactly see it, yet it’s all around us. We know it’s there.

Thomas Edison may have discovered it (debatable, I know) but it certainly existed before it’s discovery.

This Shabbos we will read the Ten Commandments. We are told how G-d himself bellowed the first of the ten, declaring “"I am the Lord your G-d, Who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage.

Upon hearing this, the people fainted and then revived. G-d continued "You shall have no other gods before Me. You shall not make for yourself a graven image, nor any manner of likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth. You shall not bow down to them, nor serve them. For I the Lord your G-d am a protective G-d, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children of the third and fourth generation of them that hate Me; and showing mercy unto the thousandth generation of them that love Me and keep My commandments.

They fainted once more, then pleaded with Moshe to carry on. He should be the one to repeat the rest not G-d himself. It was an electric overload. It was a G-dliness overload.

G-d agreed and Moshe took over with the rest of the Ten Commandments.

As human beings we were placed in this world on a mission. Not simply to journey through it, enjoy our time here and then go. We are here with a purpose and a goal. It is to leave this world a better place than it was upon our entry.

Neither, however, is this the pursuit of pure holiness. Where there is only G-d and nothing else. To sequester in the quest of purity and holiness alone. That is not why G-d planted us in this earthly, worldly planet.

It is about tapping into the electricity wires around us, recognizing how to connect them and yet not to set them on fire. To use them to create just enough light that it gets warmer and brighter around us, without it causing danger. These cables are not always recognizable or crystal clear but there nonetheless.

Some cables are made up of Shabbos candles, teffilin or kosher meat, while others come in the form of charity, a chunk of crunchy Matzah or simply being a shoulder to lean on. The trick is to be a Thomas Edison and discover them.

So, don’t be an angel, be an electrician, be a friend, be a Jew!

Shabbat Shira - The Shabbat of Song

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This Shabbat is called Shabbat Shira, the Shabbat of Song. The newly freed Israelites sang a beautiful song after crossing the Red Sea thanking God for saving them.

There is a custom to leave food for birds outside our homes on this Shabbat. Why? Chirping of birds is the way that birds praise G-d. On this Shabbat we thank them for teaching us to sing praises to G-d.

The second reason: The Torah says that in the desert the Jews ate manna, a gift that God sent them every day. But on Friday, everyone was to pick up two pieces, so that they would not need to gather it on Shabbat. The first Shabbat in the desert some Jewish rabble rousers got up very early and put manna out on the ground. When everyone would wake up and see the manna, they would distrust what God and Moses had said. But birds came and ate it before everyone woke up and the plan failed. So we repay the birds by giving them food on this Shabbat..

Finding Hope in Tough Times

Quite a remarkable story out of Walmart today! An expectant father left his wife and three daughters in the car while he ran in to fetch a few groceries. By the time he returned to the car, the girls were yelling for him to come faster as mom had apparently already given birth to their little brother! When paramedics arrived all there was left to do was drive mom the miles to the hospital with her newborn already in tow.

Talk about a quick labor!

Admittedly, I’m not even a tiny bit jealous! The quick labor yes, but no thanks on the car ride OR the triple spectators in the backseat.

Interestingly, it seems that the women in Egypt in the days of Pharaoh experienced something very similar. Pharaoh instructed the Jewish midwives (Moses’ mother and sister) that upon the birth of every Jewish boy they must immediately be thrown into the Nile River because it was seen in the stars that a baby boy would be born that would liberate and redeem the Jewish slaves. But the baby boys continued to live. It was then that Pharaoh summoned the midwives once more to investigate what was going on. The women simply gushed that “the Jewish women are not like the Egyptian women, they are so quick that by the time we reach them they’ve already given birth, they don’t even need our help.”

They certainly deserved it.

What began as forced labor for the Jewish slaves in Egypt, steadily degenerated into acts of unspeakable brutality and horror.

While the physical labor was back-breaking, the moral toll was similarly exacting. The people were demoralized and depressed, stripped of any vestige of dignity or self-respect. Under the daily terror of the taskmaster's whip, it seemed useless to hope for a better tomorrow. 

One group of slaves, however, did not succumb, and carried in their hearts an inextinguishable spark of optimism. They retained their human dignity and continued to believe in a better life. Encouraging their families daily with superhuman strength, they remained confident that their prayers would be answered.

This group of slaves was the Jewish women.

It is for this reason that it states "In the merit of the righteous women of that generation, our forefathers were redeemed from Egypt." 

After an exhausting day of excruciating labor, the women would polish their mirrors and use them to beautify themselves for their husbands. At night, the women would sneak out to the men's camps bringing hot, nourishing food. They would heat water in the fields and bathe their husband's wounds. The women spoke soft, soothing words. "Do not lose hope. We will not be slaves to these degenerates all our lives. We have G-d's promise that He will have mercy on us and redeem us."

Many women conceived during these visits, subsequently giving birth to the children who would ensure the continuity of the Jewish people.

There is no one like the Jewish woman. She is the anchor of the home and crown of her family.

Treat her like the the future of the Jewish people depends on her. Because it does!

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