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What would your 'Life End Video' look like?

 There's a new fad on Facebook. Nearly everyone I know suddenly has videos of their 'year summaries' neatly posted on their timelines. Relatives are getting annoyed as to why they were left out of the video or received just scant attention. As it happens, it's not really their fault. Google automatically compiles the video based upon your online activity and photos that you posted. Not what you should've been doing or could've been doing. Only what you actually did. In other words, it’s a true reflection of whose actually important in your life and who isn't. That's why it’s so powerful.

Our tradition tells us that a similar video is shown to us when we leave this world. All our life's experiences, acquaintances and special moments are shown to us. (This sounds pretty consistent with the expression we often hear from people who survived life threatening moments of how 'they saw their life flash before their eyes'.)

As 2014 comes to a close this week, what kind of video would your life show? Unedited. Uncut. Just raw footage of what was important to you this year.

Ganav is a thief. Not someone who could've stolen. Neither is it someone who would've stolen. Not even someone who should've stolen. Just someone who actually steals. 

Similarly, a mentsch isn't could've, should've or even would've done the right thingA mentsch is the one who did it.

Our life videos reflect who we actually were and not who we could've been; the nice things we actually said and not the ones we should've said; what we actually did and not what we would've done.

Could've, Should've, Would've- they all don't count. All that counts is what you actually did!

Lets make sure that our 'Life End Videos' are those that Facebook Friends would want to see and share because they're powerful.

Lets make next year better, not in the 'could've, should've, would've', but in the actual! 

Explaining the Oil in Oligarchs

What would happen to your Jewish identity if you became Governor of Florida tomorrow? Would you consider changing your name so that it didn’t sound ‘too Jewish’ like many others have?

We were pleasantly surprised to discover that the Lt. Govenor of Florida, Carlos Lopez- Canterra is actually 100% Jewish. Governor Scott told us so when the two of them visited our Shul this week to light the Chanukah Menorah.

But another one of our boys made it to the second most influential position in the world, probably the most influential Jew who ever lived: Joseph, in this week’s Torah portion, is appointed Governor of all of Egypt, the world’s super power at the time. Having been sold into slavery by his brothers after they tried to kill him, their meeting this week is pretty dramatic. But amazingly, whilst Joseph recognizes his brothers, they don’t recognize him!

It didn’t occur to them that their brother, a fellow Jew, could possibly be both a Jew and a politician at the same time’ says the Rebbe. 'The paradox was yoo great. Yet Joseph managed. He was both a devoted Jew and a very revered Governor at the same time'.

Perhaps this is why we celebrate Chanukah whenever we read this portion of Joseph’s Governorship. On Chanukah we celebrate the miracle of the oil. Far from being just a preschool play material, the message of the oil holds profound and majestic truths deeply relevant to us American Jews today.

In my invocation before Govenor Rick Scott’s Menorah Lighting at our New Shul on Wednesday I said these words: 'This Holiday is all about the oil. Oil has an interesting paradox in that it seeps into all nooks and crannies on the one hand yet always floats to the top when mixed with other liquids. This paradox represents the effort it takes to be an American Jew. On the one hand, Jews in America have always strived to perform in every sector of society and the economy. But the Chanukah oil reminds us that when we do so, there is no need to lose our identity as Jews. Like oil that always remains distinct, the Jew can always remain proud of his identity and heritage as a Jew!'

'After, if there's one thing I've learned as a naturalized citizen from South Africa to this Great Country, it's that Americans respect those who respect themselves!'

This is the message of Chanukah- that even whilst on the tony Country Club Golf Course or in the most influential of corporate positions, we proudly retain and celebrate our identity as Jews.

Indeed, Governor Rick Scott’s lighting the Chanukah Menorah, the symbol of religious freedom, in our new Shul was truly an endorselment of this message. From both sides of the political spectrum, Governor Rick Scott and his Lt. Governor Carlos Lopez Canterra (who is 100% Jewish) and That the Great State of Florida is proud to endorse and support our identity and observances as Jews.

The courageous message of Chanukah was endorsed from both sides of the political spectrum: Republican Governor Rick Scott and his Lt. Governor Carlos Lopez Canterra as well as Democratic State Senator Abruzzo. The symbolism is profound: the very same freedoms that the authorities opposed in Chanukah times, the Great State of Florida is proud to endorse and validate.

All we need to do is to make sure to internalize the message of the oil and the leadership of Joseph, to live proudly as Jews wherever we are and never to be afraid!

Chanukah with Florida Governor Rick Scott at Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens

 

Palm Beach Gardens, FL (December 17th, 2014) - On the first day of Chanukah, Wednesday, December 17th, Palm Beach Gardens Jewish Residents gathered to celebrate Chanukah with Governor Rick Scott at Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens. The Governor arrived with an emroidered kippah that read 'Governor Rick Scott'

 

The Governor Rick Scott was welcomed with a presentation from the children of Palm Beach Gardens. Sid Dinerstein, the former chairman of GOP PBC and Member of Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens, welcomed Rick Scott to the podium.

 

Florida Governor Rick Scott spoke about Florida's commitment to supporting Israel under his tenure. He said that he bought a million dollars in bonds, opened a florida trade office and has been with his family to Yad Vashem holocaust memorial museum in Jerusalem as well as the World War Two concentation camps in Auschwitz and Birkenau.
Addressing the question of what makes Chanukah different from other holidays celebrated at the end of the year, Rabbi Dovid Vigler spoke about the deeper symbolism of Chanukah and its relevance to us today. 'This Holiday is all about the oil. Oil has an interesting paradox in that it seeps into all nooks and crannies on the one hand yet always floats to the top when mixed with other liquids. This paradox represents the effort it takes to be an American Jew', said Rabbi Dovid Vigler. 'On the one hand, Jews in America have always strived to perform in everty sector of society and the economy. But the Chanukah oil reminds us that when we do so, there is no need to lose our identity as Jews. Like oil that always remains distinct, the Jew can always remain proud of his identity and heritage as a Jew!'

 

'After, if there's one thing I've learned as a naturalized citizen from South Africa to this Great Counry, it's that Americans respect those who respect themselves!'

 

The event was arranged and coordinated by Chana Vigler who presented the Governor with an Crystal Menorah with these words: 'This Crystal Menorah, the Symbol of Freedom from Oppression and the Victory of Light over Darkness is Proudly Presented to Florida Governor Rick Scott in deep gratitude for the benevolence, kindness and freedom that this Great State of Florida extends to all her Citizens and in profound appreciation of your unwavering friendship and support of Israel by the members of Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens. This First Day of Chanukah, December 17, 2014'.
Governor Scott mentioned that his Lieutenant Governor, Carlos Lopez-Cantera is one hundred percent Jewish. Governors Scott and Lopez-Canterra lit the menorah and then they spread the light throughout the Synagogue by lighting the candles of the audience. This spreading of the light represented how one insignificant act of goodness or positivity can spread throughout the world in seconds and vanish a far greater amount of darkness.
Cantor Leibel Krinsky led the assembled with Oseh Shalom - a Song of Peace. As he did so, the Governor, Lt. Governor, Rabbi Vigler and Rabbi Krinsky broke out into spontaneous dancing around the Chanuka lights.
The event was held at the new home of the Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens, formerly a Firehouse. 'Six months ago, this Firehouse was transformed into a House of Fire', saiud Rabbi Dovid Vigler in his invocation before the candle lighting ceremony. 'That didn't happen by itself. It was you, the dedicated members of this community who did what was needed to make this dream a reality. Today, this building is our Menorah, illuminating all of PGA Blvd. and Florida's Turnpike with the light and love that our Judaism has to offer all who pass by'.
The event was thoroughly enjoyed by all as they were able to see their own deeply held convictions validated by the elected leaders of this great country. 'GREAT EVENT!!!! Special kudos to Chana Vigler' said Sid Dinerstein. At the end of the event the crowd gathered together for a historic community photo with the Governors.
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L-R Lt. Governor  Carlos Lopez-Cantera, Chana Vigler, Rabbi Dovid Vigler, Governor Rick Scott, Sid Dinerstein 
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L-R: Lt. Governor Carlos Lopez-Cantera, Governor Rick Scott, Cantor Leibel Krinsky, Rabbi Dovid Vigler 
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About Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens
Introducing himself as an African American rabbi, Dovid Vigler blends together the African culture in which he was raised with the esoteric Chassidic pulse of his passion. Inspired by the survival instincts of -the wild, Rabbi Vigler is most comfortable teaching down-to-earth and easy-to-understand explanations of deep mystical concepts taught in the Kabbalah and Chassidic works. Driven by the Rebbe’s message to reach out to every single last Jew, he founded Schmooze Radio in 2009, South Florida’s only Torah Radio Show, “separating fact from fiction and bubbe maasehs from the bottom line.”
Rabbi Dovid Vigler received his Rabbinical Ordination in Melbourne Australia in 2004. Togetherwith his wife, Chana, they founded and direct the Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens, FL in 2006 where they have created a dynamic, warm and inspired community in one of America's most disaffiliated Jewish Communities, in eight short years.

Dreamers

‘The coat of many colors.’ Probably of the most well known narratives in the Torah. We’ve all grown up with this story; heard it one way or another, it’s plot been the stuff of a good deal of literature, arts and even music. Dolly Parton has her own rendition.

What is it about this coat that fascinates us so?

It is a tale full of human emotion. It is about a father so besotted with his son that he chooses to give him alone something special. He favors him over the others and creates an envy among them so strong they want him dead.

As both a daughter and a mother myself, I find this troublesome. A favored child? Really? I find it difficult to think of my favorite child. As I think about the incredible qualities of the one, I’m quickly reminded of the extraordinary characteristics of another and then another until it is clear that every single one is unique and gifted with their own set of genius. How could a father be so blunt, so outright, so tactless? No wonder they were jealous.

Jealousy is a terrible thing. It can drive some to terrible lows and awful conduct. But what does it come from? Why the hate?

In general, jealousy comes from significant insecurities. When we are constantly looking over our shoulders assessing what he is doing, what she is wearing, where they are living, what car they’re driving and comparing it to our lousy state of affairs. Instead of staying focused on our own G-d given talents, strengths and gifts that make us uniquely us and thinking about the contribution that we could be giving to humanity; the world.

So what was it about Joseph of which they were so envious? What was it that enamored him to his father to the extent that he handcrafted him such a personal gift?

The brothers knew they were destined for greatness. They knew that of them would become the great nation of Israel, yet they were busy herding sheep. By contrast, at seventeen years of age, Josef was a dreamer. He spoke of kingship, of being a leader, of being the chosen one.

Jacob knew that it was only he who dreams it whose dreams come true. And so he favored him, because he knew that the fruition of this prophecy would be through his dreamer son Josef.

So, what have you dreamed about lately? Remember, it’s only dreamers who still believe that dreams come true. 


It's no big deal, really!

The torah describes a fascinating anecdote in this week’s portion. 

After 20 years in Charan, 4 wives, 11 sons and one daughter later, Jacob is ready to leave and relocate his family. But then something happens, something that wasn’t quite in the plan. He hears his brother Esau is on his way with 400 men. From his greatest recollections, Jacob knows that this is not a good thing and the Torah describes that he gets ‘distressed'. It is explained that  he is not simply concerned about of the dangers in which his family will now be placed or of being killed, rather, he is also fearful for what he might do reactively, that he might actually kill. He is afraid that this is not going to end well.

 What is his instinctive reaction? The portion opens with these timeless words: "And Jacob sent messenger-angels before him to Esau his brother." The purpose of these angels was to bring conciliatory words to the other camp. But, what is the significance of  specificying that they were sent ‘before him…to Esau his brother’?  And besides, what are angels to Esau? Jacob was the pious one, Esau never cared much for all this stuff.

Seems to me that it wasn’t so much that the messengers were going to Esau as much as the fact that they were going before Jacob.

You see, life can often thrust us into a situation that we simply don’t know how we are going to come out of. It can ‘distress’ us and even make us think ‘uh oh, this isn’t going to end well’. Yet, we see from Jacob, that it is at these moments that we must send out our ‘messenger angels’ who bring ‘conciliatory words’ before us. These messenger angels are our positive thoughts and energies that do not only effect the enemy, but more so, ourselves.

There is a Chassidic proverb that goes “think good and it will be good”. Our thoughts actually have true physical power. They actually have the ability to change the course of nature, to make things good even if they weren’t meant to be.

In fact, we then see that Esau is indeed impressed with Jacob’s angels and upon meeting his brother, falls on his neck and cries. But this was only made possible by the angels before him. First, Jacob needed to believe, he needed to be convinced that it would end well.

And then, we make that phone call, the dreadful day comes or whatever else that could possibly be troubling us comes upon us and it’s not so bad.  We see that the long  lost brother we thought hated us so badly actually missed us too. The dreadful day wasn’t as dreadful and that we actually could handle life’s challenges much better than we’ve given ourselves credit for.

We can do all this and more, it's no big deal really, so long as we keep those angels in a very safe place, available to send them out before us as needed.

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